The PAL System means that nobody comes to Happy Kitten Parties alone, and each person is responsible for the person they came with. It’s like a buddy system for perverts.

I am a single guy. Can my PAL be another single guy?
YES! As long as you know and trust them, you can testify to their good character and agree to keep an eye on each other, your PAL can be any gender.

We are a couple and we have a single friend- can we bring them with us?
YES! Please do!

I am a single girl. Do I really need to bring a PAL?
YES! They can be any gender or a couple.

I am a single guy. Am I welcome?
YES! As long as you are respectful, you have read and understand the Charter, you have a PAL who you know and trust with you, and you are not in street clothes you are welcome.

I am a genderqueer/non-binary-gender person. Am I welcome?
YES! People of all genders are welcome at Happy Kitten Parties.

Can I meet someone online, arrive with them, and then go off and party?NO! You must know your PAL, be able to testify to their good character, and trust them. To come to the event with someone you don’t know and trust is disrespectful to our community and compromises the safety of the space.

Can I make last minute plans, call my friend who is already there, and get them to meet me at the door and be my PAL
YES! As long as they can meet you at the door when you arrive

If I arrive 15 minutes before my PAL can I hang out at the party till they arrive?
YES! But we will ask you to stay in the lobby so that you are there when they arrive to check in.

Can I come with a group of three or more single PALs?
YES! As long as you all arrive together and all agree to keep an eye on each other.

I have been coming to play parties for years. Can I come without a PAL?
NO. You will need to come with someone.

What happens if my PAL misbehaves?
First we will talk to them, and then we will find you and talk to you. If it is serious then they will be banned and you will get a warning. If you are not there, we will get your email address from your PAL and contact you after the event.

Will I get kicked out if my PAL misbehaves?
You might. It depends on the situation.